An Adult Dating Guide to Being on the Rebound

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Online adult dating is a totally new way of looking for a romantic partner, but it actually simulates traditional dating in “real life” more than you think.

Here are a few examples:

People Love the Virtual Thrill of the Chase

A friend told me about his experience on one of the popular online adult dating services: Users make it known how selective they are. He points out that most attractive women with smart and interesting profiles indicate that they are “very selective” in who they connect with. This is not far from the bar scene where a hottie holding court in the room seems to be intimidating and tough to approach.

My friend is a little confused by this scenario. He thinks it’s shallow, but admits that if a woman responds to whoever contacts her, he is less inclined to find her attractive, even if he likes her profile. Conversely, if he gets a response from a girl who is very selective and responds rarely, he thinks he has done something right to deserve it, and feels more accomplished.

Freedom From Obligation

My friend spent a little time with an “attractive and intelligent” girl he met online. However, there was no spark, so he stopped responding to her messages and calls.

Because of the “virtual” nature of online adult dating, people don’t follow the standard protocol for rejection. If you’re dating a friend’s friend, or somebody you met in person, you might feel like you owe them an explanation. But what’s the point in continuing the charade? Dating online is all about efficiency.

Zapping People

In the essence of efficiency, my friend explained he only responds to women who look attractive on their profile pictures. This is very much the same in real life. I’ve also been told by another cut, funny and intelligent female friend who is into online dating as well that she gets a lot of messages, and she tries to respond to each one. But then it got too overwhelming, so now she simply deletes messages from guys who don’t look attractive in their profile photos without even reading them.

You Are an Advertiser

In the world of advertising, brands have a certain amount of time to throw a sales pitch to their potential customers. In just a short moment, the brand will attempt to make a big point by using a compelling image, strategy, and message.

Online dating is very similar to this. Writing short, but interesting messages to potential partners keep their attention. Who wants to read a long, boring message about your life? Telling just part of the story compels the reader to find out more.

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Online Dating – Weighing Up the Pros and Cons

Article by Tony Kitson

Online Dating – Weighing Up the Pros and Cons – Relationships – Dating

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Online dating is a fantastic resource. It is a fairly recent development that we can all use to broaden our dating experience. Never before has such a diverse range of people been available to us. Now the whole world is literally just a few clicks of a mouse away.

Having said that before you dive into the internet dating world, you should take a few moments to step back and thoroughly weigh up the pros and cons of this kind of online adventure. Whilst the water may seem calm and lovely, it does contain the odd turbulent patch and a few sharks too. So with this in mind what are the pros and cons of online dating.

First the pros

1 – You get to meet a wide range of people from all corners of the globe, there are no limits.

2 – You get to meet many people, and have the opportunity to focus down to the ones that really interest you, without actually wasting your time meeting face to face and going on lots of dead end dates.

3 – You don’t have to be brave and endure the bar scene or blind dates

4 – Everyone on a dating site is looking to meet someone, so there is no chance of getting rejected by people because they are in a relationship or not looking to date.

5 – The pressure is lower as e mails are much easier to write than talking face to face or on the phone.

6 – If you take a few common sense precautions it’s safe, as you only need to share the minimum personal information until you feel comfortable.

OK that’s the good stuff, so what are the cons?

1 – You are not initially seeing the person face to face. Pictures can be, at best touched up, or out of date, or at worse completely fake.

2 – If you fall for a person who is not local to you, or even on the other side of the planet, it may be sometime before you can meet, and long distance relationships are tricky at best.

3 – You have to trust what they tell you on their profile is true. I know this happens no matter how you meet, but it is easier to lie online than face to face, plus there are no body language clues to help you to make a judgment.

4 – You will often have to pay a membership fee to use the dating site. You can often get a free trial or free membership, sometimes with certain restrictions, before you stump up the cash. However it’s a small amount if you think about the cost of going out to bars etc to meet people.

Think carefully if online dating is for you before you decide to take the plunge. I hope the above points will help you to decide, and if you do I wish you every success. Keep safe but remember most importantly have fun.

About the Author

The best tip I can give you when dating online is to use all the tools available to you. Remain safe do not give out too much personal information initially, until you feel confident that the person you have found is honest and reliable.

Looking for your perfect partner online? You can find your ideal mate, or just meet and interact with thousands of like minded people, and all for free at http://www.my-online-dating-tips.info

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